Pleasure Principal

Pleasure Doula

What is a Pleasure Doula?

A pleasure doula is a person who provides support and guidance around pleasure, desire and uses of the erotic.

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Jameka "Jai" Hartley, Ph.D.

About Me

Hi, I'm Jai! I'm a G.R.I.T.S. (A Girl Raised in the South). I'm a Queer Woman. A mother and a daughter. A Black Feminist intellectual and a poet. I am deeply passionate about everyone being well loved and loved well and having access to their innate erotic prowess.

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Services

How I Can Help

-Personalized Pleasure Plans
-Life Coaching
-Individual and Couples Pleasure Coaching
-Guided Learning

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Testimonials

What do my clients have to say?

The word "healing" is the first thing that comes to mind. I get lost in my head a lot and meeting with Jai helps to bring me back to center. I can have decision paralysis and the homework/tasks that she has provided me has moved me to action whether it be professionally, personally, or spiritually. Lastly, she's "affirming", I feel seen in the best way, it's a safe space , and I always feel good/lighter after.- Assata, Age 29

Jai creates a safe, free-flowing space to talk about pleasure and intimacy. I appreciate her approach-down to earth, humorous, and welcoming. Some of our conversations have been quite sensitive and I've always felt comfortable enough to share. I have used her coaching services to navigate relationships, breakups, dating and finding pleasure within. If you're looking for a coach to guide you through the depths of pleasure and intimacy with care, compassion and a deep knowledgebase, it's Jai!- Shari, Age 41